Tuesday, 28 July 2015

Biggest Wave Ever - Nostalgia


This weekend was a weekend to remember. There were 2 different reasons that made these two days extremely special. Both have one thing in common: me & my memories. J

We had planned to attend my sister in law’s bharatnatyam arangetram in Chennai on Saturday. I was really excited about it for over a month. I had done my own arangetram 19 years back when I was about 8 years old. After that, forget dancing, I hadn't seen a live bharatnatyam recital in years. My eagerness was so evident that my whole family immediately planned to go to Chennai. We reached a bit late but nevertheless I was stunned by the sight in front of my eyes.

One glance at a bharatnatyam dancer and you think “Beauty Personified”. The first thing that’ll strike you are the eyes that are heavily accentuated with kohl. These doe-like eyes enhance the dancer’s expressions. Our eyes are windows to our soul. Words fail us but our eyes always show the unadulterated state of our being. Then there are the color stained lips that make the smiles look even better. Glittering jewellery, flowers, altha, long braided hair and ghungroo complete the classic Indian look.

I am not an expert in bharatnatyam. I was just another tamilian girl who learnt dance in her childhood. When I think about this dance form, I feel there are many aspects that when intertwined together create a magical art. Expressions, Postures, Mudra, Footwork, Music & Story are important pieces of this art. The postures and mudras in bharatnatyam look beautiful yet it takes years of practice to perfect them. Anything less than perfect make them look clumsy. The rhythmic sound of feet meeting the floor and tinkling sound of the ghungroo is a treat to one’s ears. Music binds the art and the story together.

Coming back to the arangetram, there were three dancers who were taking turns to dance on-stage. The upside of this is more breathing time for the dancers but the downside being the need for synchronization. Even with breaks, dancing for 2-3 hours straight drains one’s energy. When I saw these dancers panting and trembling with imbalance, I was taken back to my arangetram when my aunt used to feed me glucose between performances. I remember not liking it back then but now I was feeling grateful to all the adults who insisted.

All in all it was a memorable Saturday with some wonderful performances.

The other thing that took me down the memory lane is the Sony show “Reporters”. Reporters is the love story of two people in the media world. It has Rajeev Khandelwal in the lead role. It’s the same Rajeev Khandelwal who shot to fame with Kahin To Hoga. Back then I did not quite notice him since it was a “SOAP”. It was too melodramatic for my taste. Then Left Right Left came around and I was hooked on to it completely. There he was again, a handsome yet tormented army officer. The story had the right mix of action and romance. It was then that I started liking Rajeev. Then as years passed by I watched his films – Anwar, Shaitan, Soundtrack & Table no. 21. Now when he is again back on the silver screen, I keep remembering those days when all of us used to watch episode after episode. Now he plays an enigmatic character. He’s a shrewd editor-in-chief who revives a TV news channel and brings it to the top. He’s portrayed as arrogant, smart (extremely smart), intuitive, courageous, aloof,… And there are times when they let you glimpse at the real Kabir Sharma – funny, humane, romantic, fun-loving, caring,… Reporters keeps me on my toes and makes me wait for the next episode just like LRL.

The human mind is fantastic. You don’t realize its capabilities until it surprises you with a bang. It sees, remembers, connects, recollects, analyses, decides and best of all creates.

Wednesday, 22 April 2015

Music or Magic? What do I call it?

There's something magical about music! It can make you remember; make you forget. It can make you smile; make you cry. It can bring you peace; make you believe... The possibilities are endless. Every person's taste is unique yet music has something to offer to all.

Some people listen to music for its technique and nuances. Some listen to music that makes them dance. Some only listen to music that they have grown up with. Some listen to music that calms them after a long day's work. 

I listen to music that touches my heart. I listen to music that brings back memories. I listen to music that reminds me of someone. I listen to music that's quirky. I listen at times just for the singer's voice. I can listen with no particular reason too. For me, what to listen is more instinctive.  

I can listen to Ilayaraja's compositions for days together. That man is pure genius. "Aasai nooru vagai", "Etho mogam", Vaa vaa pakkam vaa", "Thendral vanthu theendum podhu",... the list goes on & on & on. I also like music that borderlines between light music and carnatic. This is a pleasure to hear since it is light and at the same time has plenty of powerful carnatic nuances. Though I've very little knowledge about carnatic music, I find it enchanting & endearing. My recent favourite in this category is "Ennai enna seidhai venkuzhale".

For me, music is very much about the mood and the lyrics. I love listening to "Chinna thayaval" & "Aisi sazaa" because they convey sorrow both in tune and in words. I listen to "Paarkadhe Paarkadhe" & "Yaaram" because the lyrics make me smile. I am a complete romantic and that's why "Oh butterfly" & "Malayil yaaro" are my all time favourites. "Enaa maa kannu" & "Tere mere beech mein kya hai" are high on the naughtiness quotient.

I listen to "Muskanein jhooti hai" just for Suman Sridhar's husky sensual voice. I listen to Shreya Ghoshal all the time because her voice is so very soothing. I listen to "Dance Basanti" for Vishal Dadlani rocks in it. "Piya basanti" finds a place in my playlist because Chitra still has a really good voice after all these years.

I still love to listen to "Kombdi palali" because when I listen to it, I can see my office party playing in my mind. I remember the dance moves of all the dance fanatics. I also remember how much I laughed that day and at every party that followed.

I started listening to western music just because they were different from what I've grown up listening. I liked them for the variety they brought into my playlist.

To top it all, I have now started listening to songs targeting children and I enjoy it so much that I sing along when my daughter listens to them. I guess one's taste changes with time. Let's see what my playlist looks like ten years down the line.

The New Year orDEAL



New year resolutions are promises that we proudly make but never keep. We never take them seriously probably because these are promises that we make to ourselves. I am hoping to work on these at least this year *fingers crossed*.


DISCOVER
  • Find new interests.Take up a new hobby. Try activities never tried before.
  • Travel to different places and experience different cultures & cuisines.

EXPRESS
  • Voice your opinions. Speak your mind.
  • Let the world see the real you.
  • Bring down the shield. It's okay to get hurt. It'll only make you stronger.

ADORE
  • Don't hold back. Love with all your heart.
  • Nothing is too small for love. Be thankful for every little thing that makes your life worthwhile.
  • Love yourself. 


LET GO
  • Fantasies that can never be. Letting go can be liberating.
  • Cherish the gifts that you have instead of fussing about what you don't.

Saturday, 14 February 2015

The Silent Kaju

Dedicating this post to Sreyas aka DD. He's all set to step into a new phase of life and here's something that Anjali might enjoy reading...



His playlist is like a breath of fresh air
Actors like him are really rare

Gets a kick out of experiences new
People as spontaneous as him are very few

Will make you laugh with one-liners witty
                                              Is the only punctual guy in the city ;)

Keeps a lot of secrets, none he spills
Nicknamed Kachua for his driving skills

Can talk about cars for hours
Works in the time zone of Mars

It’s Gangaram he’s crazy about
Has an “Alag” reason for it, no doubt

Gifted with a great sense of humour
He being an innocent guy is only a rumour

Rebel is the word that describes him best
Raanti is the word that comes up next

Everyday can be Valentine's Day



You feel the joy till the brim,
Just for him, you hit the gym
The sound of his voice however distant,
Makes you light up in an instant

Your secrets he’ll keep, nobody will find,
With him, you speak whatever’s on your mind.
Wonder you do, “Can he peek into my head?”
For he makes it all happen, even the wishes unsaid.

There’s none of the thanks-sorry fuss,
No ‘you’ or ‘me’, always just “us”
His discreet, just-like-that peeks
Always adds color to your cheeks

Waiting for him gets the anger simmering
His dazzling grin leaves you smiling
Expressions & laughter absolutely elfish,
Every moment with him you cherish

When the pressure at work stands tall,
Into his arms you fall,
A warm hug brings back the cheer
Then you know there’s nothing to fear.

Teasing you often is only a ploy,
Your mixed expressions add to his joy
For hours together, you love watching
Him working, sleeping or even doing nothing

But when situations become rough
And the going gets tough
Why do we forget love is patient, love is kind
And believe “Love means slowly losing your mind”?

Zara hatke, zara bachke, ye hai Mumbai meri jaan!



I never thought a timid, conservative, small town girl could survive in a cosmopolitan like Mumbai. But, believe it or not, Mumbai & its people can surprise you every single day! I remember being terrified about leaving the comfort of my home. Not knowing people or the city was acceptable but not knowing the language made me feel like an alien and that thought brought with it a whole lot of other horrendous possibilities. But venture I did, hesitantly at first, confidently later & proudly after that, for the city embraced the scared little kid with open arms.

So what is so special about Mumbai? Words can’t do justice to the charm of Mumbai. Yet I’ll try…

Good food has a 100% success rate when it comes to creating emotional connections. That’s possibly why I can’t imagine Mumbai without its food. I’m still in love with the vada pavs, the samosas, the dabelis, the pav bhajis, the pani puris,… (I can go on & on J). Be it Ghatkopar’s Khau Galli or Mulund’s busy marketplace, you’ll surely stumble upon one lip smacking delicacy after another. It’s not only the taste and the variety but also the experiences that leave a forever mark on your memory.

Another striking feature about this city is its “busy”ness. This city can put the working bees to shame. The buzz starts in the wee hours of the morning and doesn’t stop even after midnight. If you’re in this city, you’re never alone anytime anywhere (in a good sense. I’ll save the pitfall for another day).

People are always in a hurry, oh yes, but I find them amazingly helpful too. When I started going out by myself, I never had to worry about not knowing the way (These were the pre-Google Maps days… OMG, I suddenly feel so old!). One question and you would have the entire route explained to you till you confidently nod to show you understood. When you are travelling alone, you’re bound to have fears of all sorts, but more often than not, you can trust the Mumbaikars.

Hindi speaking people from other states openly criticize the way we speak Hindi. Yeah, we do use peculiar words, mix Marathi with Hindi but it is this quirkiness that makes the “bambaiya” Hindi all the more endearing. Can you imagine a conversation without “Aila”, “waat”, “shaana”, “fultoo”, “chindi”, “locha”, “kalti”…? I can’t! While Mumbaikars prefer to speak like that, they can pen impeccable “Shudh” Hindi literature too. Who said non-conformance to the rules is a costly affair. The fun it brings is totally worth it.

Life in Mumbai is incomplete without the BEST buses and the local trains. There would not be a single Mumbaikar who has not spent a large chunk of his travel time in these modes of transport. I was flooded with nostalgia when I travelled in a bus here in Bangalore after 2 years. I vividly remember: sleeping with my head resting on the window sill, frantically searching for an empty seat even while boarding the bus, giving away my seat to a senior citizen,… The local trains are even more fantastic. You’ll be amazed at the discipline with which people alight and board these trains. The entertainment quotient is also high, thanks to the cat fights. Travelling in Mumbai not only entertains you but also teaches you lessons for life.

Can you talk about Mumbai and not talk about Bollywood and Sachinism? From a grandfather to a housewife to a teenager, everyone loves Bollywood. 286 weeks of Sholay & 1000 weeks of DDLJ are proof of this. And what can I say about the love for Sachin Tendulkar! People are crazy about cricket and crazier about the Little Master. I remember people gathering in the office cafeteria leaving aside all their work just because Sachin was at the crease. The excited shouts when he hits a boundary and the walkouts when his innings comes to an end are unforgettable moments. In Mumbai, Cricket is a religion and Sachin its God.

It’s believed that routine is synonymous with monotony. But year after year, I have awaited the monsoons with utmost earnest. That’s how much I loved the rains. Getting drenched in the first rain was always on the top of my favourites list. I have had to wade through knee-deep water to visit my newborn cousin. I have also had to save 13 pairs of shoes from floating away when murky water entered our compound. But nothing could simmer down my love for the rainy season. It has always been my favourite time of the year. It still is even though the rainy season here in Bangalore is nothing compared to the one in Mumbai.

If there’s one place where you can witness every festival of India being celebrated in a grand fashion, Mumbai will win hands down. Be it Ganesh Chaturthi or Durga Pooja or Dandiya Raas or Christmas, there is grandeur in every celebration. Dahi Handi is a must-watch for anyone visiting Mumbai. Innumerable people getting together on the streets to watch the human pyramid is a wonderful sight. Ganesh Chaturthi is another festival that Mumbaikars love to celebrate.

I have been in Mumbai for 15 years and such has been the charm of Mumbai that when I am asked where I’m from, I quickly say “Mumbai”. I don’t know where life will take me but Mumbai will always be my “Home! Sweet Home!”